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Porn. An imperfect portrayal of sex.
Watching porn can be fun and exciting.
However, it can simultaneously shape expectations about sex.
You may develop restrictive ideas about
what sex and naked bodies look like.
For example, in porn we often see the same set of sex acts: oral sex > penetration > ejaculation.
"Real" sex has more on the menu.
People kiss, tease, chat, cuddle and laugh. And they are definitely more clumsy: think of all those little accidents and funny noises!
In the end, they may orgasm. Or they may not.
Speaking of orgasms…
Porn may give the impression that men can last for hours in bed.
Realistic? Not so much.
Most men orgasm within 5-6 minutes.
Women in porn, on the other hand, seem to reach an orgasm from even the slightest touch.
Yet, 8 in 10 women cannot climax from penetration alone.
They also need stimulation to the clitoris.
From the outside, you can only see its head sticking out.
This is also the most sensitive area of the clitoris!
Right here!
When aroused, the clitoris likes
to be tickled in all sorts of ways.
The clitoris enjoys hands, mouths, sex toys
and stimulating sex positions.
So… what about squirting?
Only a few women are able to. In porn, it's often faked.
Don't compare yourself too much to porn actors.
In porn, the average penis is measured
between 20 to 25 centimeters.
Off-screen, almost all men have a penis
between 10 to 16 centimeters.
If that didn't sooth you, maybe this will: 85% of women are more than satisfied with their partner's penis size.
In porn, vulvae appear in an almost identical look.
In reality, a wide variety exists. Vulvae have all different kinds of shapes, colors, labia, and hairstyles.
Also, pubic hair has become a rarity in porn.
In daily life, men and women both feel the pressure to abide by these beauty standards.
A majority of people get rid of their pubic hair every once in a while.
This look may be considered "clean", yet it is anything but. Shaving increases the risk for infections, red bumps and ingrown hairs.
Alternatives? Grow it out or sculpt a work of art.
But keep away from razor blades!
Swap it for a trimmer to prevent skin damage.
What is exciting in porn, may turn you off in real life.
For example, 4 out of 5 men fantasize
about ejaculating on their partner's body.
Yet, only 2 out of 5 women share this fantasy.
This discrepancy may be due to the fact that porn is made with a heterosexual, male audience in mind.
Porn's demographic, however, is much more diverse.
Take lesbian porn. "Scissoring" excites mainly heterosexual males.
However, change is on the way!
For instance, amateur porn is on the rise.
People enjoy watching other people actually enjoying themselves.
We also need to talk about anal sex.
Some think it's solely a porn-thing.
Others think it's solely a gay-thing.
Butt let's be real: anyone can find the anus pleasurable.
In fact, over half of heterosexual men and women have had anal sex!
Finally, here is what porn knows perfectly well:
we all have are own preferences.
Whether that is taking control, big butts, being watched,
…adventurous outfits, or adventurous locations,
…or without any fuss.
What matter is that you are having fun!
Thank you for watching. It was a pleasure.
Do you want to learn more about sex? You can find more information on www.sense.info/en.

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